Chris Wimbley: the "commander" of his friendships

so ive been sitting back doing some thinking and its amazing how people can relate to people. for example i am THEE BIGGEST kelly rowland fan ever. not to knock beyonce or michelle dont get me wrong i love them they make great music but i LOVE i mean LOOOOVE kelly rowland. but why is that ? i mean i guess it starts with she is an aquarian (2-11) and so am i (2-10) i mean off the back HEY WE GOT A CONNECTION !! but i think this goes deeper than that. i set back and took a close look at kelly rowlands life. some family life of her's was rocky from when she was a little girl, ended up in the best girl group of all time, while in the group had a lotta funny  business going on, her "sister" for life is beyonce, blah blah blah so now your like whats the point. well behind these scenes kelly had it hard failed relationship after relationship, hard to get her career going because critics were and are always down her back, had issues with her looks up until her 20's which is when she discovered her self confidence and how beautiful she is, she's the sweet heart of the industry,yet people put her in the light 2 steps back and to the left of beyonce and  so on and so one. ok so now you prolly like "whats your point"

well lets take a look at this guy known as "chris wimbley" ready.... seeet.... GO! chris wimbley family situation rocky from the start ever since he was born its been tough, ended up in the circle of besties where shit happened and they all went through some changes, big brother of over 10 years to julius and jonathan whom he loves unconditionally, is getting the career going but there is always something in his way, had problems with his looks until he was in mid 20's and all of a sudden blossomed with some confidence outta no where, constantly called one of the nicest and realist in this "game" yet he always end up pushed into the back b.k.a. second runner up ( and its no shade)

so after i realized this and how much we have in common i realized why i love kelly rowland so much, why her voice intrigues me weather its a ballad or a pop song,r&b song, dance what ever she chooses to do i feel it. and yeah she may not write all of  her stuff alone  ( i do i found a difference hehehe) but i relate as if she followed me and i write as if i somehow followed her. now i know it may seem crazy but i mean i think we all have stars that we are drawn to somehow because either themselves or the person they portray through music, movies, whatever makes us feel a connection to them as if for some moment we become one in a way that is takes you on a journey not to many other artist can.

so yes i am the proud kelly rowland of my friendships. now dont get it twisted i dont say that to mean that i think im ugly and no im self-esteemless no no NO soo not saying that. what i mean is that its plain and simple. some people have got it easier than most and they JUST DONT REALIZE IT then there are those of us who have to work double hard mainly because we spent most of our lives feeling sorry for ourselves based on how others made us feel or didnt make us feel. but that is US it was meant for us to not have the easy life because i surely know i dont ! i have to and have put in double the work just to get where i am and i havent stopped. yes my best friends maaaan those dudes are the shit. they are mad attractive, they have the looks, the pull off any look, they have the charm, the personality they  "IT". hell actually majority of the people i know have "IT".for them it works and it is WHATS UP because they all do it and do it well. while me and kelly oh we have "IT" but its just our it isnt what the can draw just about anyone into the "influence" ( in kellys case just the united states she is a international super star don't get it twisted).and im not just saying from a dating aspect it goes to every corner and covers everything  from relationships, to friendships, jobs, hell even gettin the perfect subway sandwhich ( yes i used food) because to put it simply as i stated SOME OF US HAVE TO WORK EVEN HARDER TO GET WHAT WE WANT !!! we will find love, we will find happiness, we will be successful but for us it takes just more time and its life and its our lives and for those who have to work harder you just have to make it do what it do. life is about lessons learned to build you to who you are. im glad for everything thats happen to me because i see the world totally different than a LOT of people.its a gift and a curse but ill save that for a later blog lol lol

so to end this blog it goes like this. for us the kelly rowlands of the world ( please rise as i say this)you have two options you can either A) choose to feel and act like you are nobody and live off of what happened to you in your past and how your life has been tragedy after tragedy and you can play the woe is me no one loves me card and chose to sit in the back and act like you arent a worthy contender in this thing called life or you can B) find strength in your life from what happened to you in the past and grow from it. use it to fuel your hunger for success and shoot for not the stars but what lies behind them and know no matter what you are putting your best foot foward. now years ago i chose option B because its simple and there no other way to put it. i am 'Chris Wimbley" and there is nan other so why not be the best i can be. we obviously know which one kelly rowland chose, Now answer me this,WHICH OPTION ARE YOU!?!?!?!


this is chris wimbley your "commander" signing out (wink)